How to Help Someone Having an Overwhelming Psychedelic Experience

If you are uncertain about the origin and/or purity of the substance(s) the person was using, and if you truly believe that they are in physical danger, then you should call for help immediately.

Sometimes psychedelic experiences can become difficult or overwhelming, and can trigger a sort of panic attack (or anxiety attack), which is essentially a triggering of the flight-or-fight response (also called the acute stress response), which can cause the body to release catecholamines including adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisol, resulting in physical symptoms such as dilated pupils, pale or flushed skin, rapid heart rate and breathing, and even trembling, dizziness, and cramping, but typically more prominent in psychedelic related anxiety are emotional symptoms such as feelings of impending doom, fear of loss of control or death, and a feeling of detachment from reality.

The first thing to remember, is that to help someone who is going through a difficult experience, you need to be the calm, compassionate, understanding voice of reason. You may need to be firm, but you must not be confrontational or threatening. How you act and react is more important that what you say.

• be empathetic and non-judgmental
• respect their personal space and boundaries
• keep your tone and body language neutral
• avoid over-reacting

Ideally this is a situation where the person is already in a safe place, but if not, you want to gently encourage and direct them to a quiet, safe, and comfortable space, which offers some calm privacy, and is away from potential danger. Avoid the following:

• high places such as balconies, ledges, cliffs, or steep hills
• bodies of water, including swimming pools, rivers, or ponds
• traffic, or any place with moving vehicles or machinery
• kitchens, stoves, knives, potential weapons of any sort

Remind them that psychedelic experiences are temporary, and also inherently very physically safe. They can not die from a panic attack, and they will not die from an overwhelming psychedelic experience. Remind them that they took a drug, and that it will wear off in time.

If you know what they took, and when, then you should be able to reassure them as to when they should expect to begin to feel normal again.

If they are overly focused on a certain thought or subject, you can gently try to distract them by asking them to look at something, handing them an object, asking if they would like to listen to some music, or if they would like a sip of water – only if they are currently safely capable of doing so.

Tell them to go with the flow. That you are there to support them, and that they can trust, let go, and be open (TLO):

• Trust yourself, and your body to take care of you
• Trust that you are safe
• Trust in the knowledge that this will pass
• Let go of your anxiety
• Let go of your need to be in control
• Let go of clinging to memories, identities, or emotions
• Be open to the experience
• Be open to receiving wisdom from it
• Be open to finding your way through it

It is important that when someone having a psychedelic experience is in your care, that you stay with them until you are sure that they are back to baseline, and they are supported throughout the experience. You just need to be emotionally present, a compassionate listener, and prepared to call for assistance if necessary.

If you feel that you must call 911 for a medical crisis, it is not recommended to mention substance use. Simply say that there is a medical emergency (otherwise police may be dispatched).

If you feel that there danger of physical violence, let 911 know that you fear for your safety, and police will be dispatched (this should only be done in extreme situations).